:) How I wish I could tell her that ..... nevertheless, I believe she's all about happiness now!!
Showing posts with label Mum. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mum. Show all posts
Yeah!! I'm back liao!!!
It was worth the trip ... I had fun as well as able to go and see my mum's burial ground ... here's a few pic... no words yah!!
Galantine @ Boncafe!!! My Fave ....
Me & Cc @ Suki!!
Me @ Boncafe :)
Me @ Metropolis Apartment!!
Wooohooo .... today is my birthday! yep I'm officially 1 year older from today onward :)
I only have 1 wish .... which is .... I wish all my wishes come true! lol! very greedy ;p
My only wish is actually impossible to achive ... I wish I could spend my birthday with my mum once again ... even for one last time only, it will make my day for the whole year!
Oh well ... Happy Birthday to me, myself, and I!!! hehe... I've got lotsa gift for myself liao =))
I only have 1 wish .... which is .... I wish all my wishes come true! lol! very greedy ;p
My only wish is actually impossible to achive ... I wish I could spend my birthday with my mum once again ... even for one last time only, it will make my day for the whole year!
Oh well ... Happy Birthday to me, myself, and I!!! hehe... I've got lotsa gift for myself liao =))
Hmm ... Gossiping ... Spreading rumours .... are those activities by people that is very free. hee .. but I did that too when I'm free!! This few months ar... people keep on spreading rumours that I've resigned la .. sign another appointment letter la .. join another company la .. watsoever la ... In any case, I dont care of what people want to say about me! If they want to do so, then its up to them :) I can only say ... wow! I'm that famous meh ...
But the truth is .. I feel very thankfull to my direct bozz coz he so sayang me (or people said so la..) and he's been very accomodating to my needs. ^_^v 人家说我是老板的宠儿，不只是宠儿，是最疼的叻！哈哈！
Btw ar.... I'm thinking of having a hair cut lei ... at least before any interview bah ... and I quite like my hair in this picture horz ... it was taken on my last holiday with my mum & sis in Jakarta .. sigh I miss my mum!!
Its time for Ceng Beng (清明) time liao .... and this year mark my first ceng beng visit for my mum. People said that for the first year, it is to be done 2 weeks before the day. Btw, 清明 falls on April 5th every year.
I flew home on March 20th with Garuda Indonesia bcoz 21st is a public holiday for easter .. hoho. But it was very 巧 that my ama oso bring forward our trip to 外公's tomb a week earlier which means on the easter day itself...
21 March 2008 - Friday
So .... my 1st day was filled with this itinerary :) a trip to 外公's tomb and I drove .. It's located in Lumajang, 3.5 hour driving from Surabaya. All of my mum's family was there and we burn some incense, paper money, etc .... basically, all the normal things to do during the tomb sweeping day.
Here's a photo I took with my cousin ... and 外公的墓碑 with my mum's name written there ...
我和表弟在外公的墓碑前
外公的墓碑 (My mum's name in the blowup)After that we went to my aunt house to relax and actually I also need to cool down after kena sunbath and take a pee .... After a while ... its time for lunch :) and everyone voted to go to a place called Sememu which is 30mins driving from the city ...
Its a village lifestyle ... got the paddy field, fish pond, etc .... but the price of the fish not much different than what we have in the big cities leh .... but okie lar at least its ho ciak :)
Here's a few photo I took over there ...
门口
Corridor
炸鱼
烤鱼
Sambal
结局
After chit chat-ing for a few hours ... then we all must say bye bye liao. I drove halfway till I felt very sleepy ... to let my sis took over hehe ... :P when we reached home I directly head to my mum's room and dozed off ....
22 March 2008 - Saturday
客厅
The whole morning I was preparing the paper money and things to be bring tomorrow to mum's tomb ... doing the paper money, my sis took my ama buy flower, etc ... the followed with a short trip to TP having lunch in Hachi Hachi ..... (pic as below), also bought a vest in (X),S,M,L and a slim tie :)
Hachi Hachi
Hachi Hachi
It was a lil bit rush since cece want to visit her fren at hospital ... so I waited for her in my aunt house and we also have to pick my koko at the airport .... sibeh rush!
Evening, me n sis went to church ... till after midnite ... huff huff ...
23 March 2008 - Sunday
Its time for us to go to mum's tomb which already half way thru the construction.. Ama keep on stressing that we must go early early in the morning ... the time where I haven't up yet or shall I say not yet fully up :s
My little cousin also there ... he's so cute ... with a jacket to avoid sunburn wakaka .... We did spent a lil bit of time over there ... 拜拜-ing, burning incense, burning paper money, paper clothes, etc ... in a hope that it will be sent over to mum in the other world. I think if mum see this she would be very happy too ...
Later on, we went to Sri Fried Chicken somewhere nearby ... I seated beside my cousin so that I can play play with him hehe ..... After finished with our bfast, we all heading home and I doze off after I touch my pillow .... and I spend the whole day staying at home .. uhm went out to Giant and had dinner ... since I was so tired ....
Here's some pic I took over that day ....
在妈妈的墓地
我和表弟
24 March 2008 - Monday
I had to leave my home again .... my flight was arnd 7am and yet I woke up late!! woahh .... still have to go to Ama's house to get my bfast and cake .... walao we... wa sibeh kanchiong one lerr... haha .... *as always*
I was so tired when I reached Singapore ..... yet I had to fly again in the afternoon .... tell u next time :)
Okie ... now it's part 3 liao.
After completing my Junior High, we were like .. being bothered by my bro's failure (yes! cin mahuan hor..). I admit we did try to bribe his teacher. I tell u ar... not only one actually ... wa cin malu u know ... walao wa ancua kak ka liao lang kong leh? At the end, it was to no avail lor... All this was like initiated by mum since my dad is always co bo.
One problem ends to no avail and the next one came. It was about me (wait wait ... msi wa e salah horz...). Naturally, I wanted to go to the same school as my sis but I guess my fate didnt agree with that and make me rejected =.=" My mum once again tried to help me out by talked with the headmaster, and I did ask my friends parents who sit in the admission committe. But what can I say if all the above fail? surrender lor... I did apply to other few good school in Surabaya but it was quite expensive that time so I decided not to take it up.
And .... ta da! My mum got the initiative to let us go and study in Malang (1.5hour driving from Surabaya). I applied to 2 top school overthere and both of them were gladly take me in (notice that word "gladly" haha). At the end, I decided to go to one of them.
At first, we rent a room in a dorm (private dorm) but ... both of us cannot tahan. I think because we're not used to it lar, msi standard ane high. Then we stayed by our own and took the private shuttle service to go to school. Every weekend we always go back home (it was the most long awaited time for me ..) but sometime Mum came to us instead and its makan time!
Ehm .. dunno why but I start to excel in my study eventhough I got some problem with some of the teacher. hueheu.... luck maybe? :)
I got in a fight with bro so many time (i think countless liao..) and at the end I always take the step back. This wat Mum always taught me .. to be quite cin cai with siblings bcoz they're my siblings afterall. But ever since one of the big fight, I stopped to talk with my bro. I'm cin cai lang but my ego is also very high.
I got go into few competition even with no throphy wakakaka! I still remembered the funniest question a teacher has ever asked me "What subject that you want to add one grade if you want to join these competition?" and guess what my answer was ... ... ... Indonesian Language and PE lor... since I'm such a lame student in these two subject.
My mum was so proud and happy when it came to raport distribution day. Ofcoz leh ... I got brain one mah ... haha... I ever got a perfect 10 for chemistry horz... but still I prefer Physics and Math. The highest rank I ever get was 3rd in class and 10 plus across the board (not bad eh? :P). Having the opportunity of being the banzhang oso.
Lemme continue later on okie .... ^__^v
After completing my Junior High, we were like .. being bothered by my bro's failure (yes! cin mahuan hor..). I admit we did try to bribe his teacher. I tell u ar... not only one actually ... wa cin malu u know ... walao wa ancua kak ka liao lang kong leh? At the end, it was to no avail lor... All this was like initiated by mum since my dad is always co bo.
One problem ends to no avail and the next one came. It was about me (wait wait ... msi wa e salah horz...). Naturally, I wanted to go to the same school as my sis but I guess my fate didnt agree with that and make me rejected =.=" My mum once again tried to help me out by talked with the headmaster, and I did ask my friends parents who sit in the admission committe. But what can I say if all the above fail? surrender lor... I did apply to other few good school in Surabaya but it was quite expensive that time so I decided not to take it up.
And .... ta da! My mum got the initiative to let us go and study in Malang (1.5hour driving from Surabaya). I applied to 2 top school overthere and both of them were gladly take me in (notice that word "gladly" haha). At the end, I decided to go to one of them.
At first, we rent a room in a dorm (private dorm) but ... both of us cannot tahan. I think because we're not used to it lar, msi standard ane high. Then we stayed by our own and took the private shuttle service to go to school. Every weekend we always go back home (it was the most long awaited time for me ..) but sometime Mum came to us instead and its makan time!
Ehm .. dunno why but I start to excel in my study eventhough I got some problem with some of the teacher. hueheu.... luck maybe? :)
I got in a fight with bro so many time (i think countless liao..) and at the end I always take the step back. This wat Mum always taught me .. to be quite cin cai with siblings bcoz they're my siblings afterall. But ever since one of the big fight, I stopped to talk with my bro. I'm cin cai lang but my ego is also very high.
I got go into few competition even with no throphy wakakaka! I still remembered the funniest question a teacher has ever asked me "What subject that you want to add one grade if you want to join these competition?" and guess what my answer was ... ... ... Indonesian Language and PE lor... since I'm such a lame student in these two subject.
My mum was so proud and happy when it came to raport distribution day. Ofcoz leh ... I got brain one mah ... haha... I ever got a perfect 10 for chemistry horz... but still I prefer Physics and Math. The highest rank I ever get was 3rd in class and 10 plus across the board (not bad eh? :P). Having the opportunity of being the banzhang oso.
Lemme continue later on okie .... ^__^v
Huf huf! now that I got time to continue my story hehehe....
lets see..... where are we now .... when I was in the elementary school, eh?
As I said, she used to drove us to school every morning and we go back to our store after school by becak (trishaw). Yeah I know it was three of us! Sometime we just stay in the store till dawn .. but my siblings, they, dont like it. But I did enjoy it there coz I knew I'm with mum :) hehe...
I like to help her at the store doing the retail .. while my dad doing the bulk which he's not good at (stupid dad I have). I think thats where I got my sharpness in seeing things and suan-ing things. I'm good at number becoz of this too, maybe! hehe ....
I realized that my mum directly or indirectly has influenced me on a few things:
1. be persistent on what i'm doing
2. know how to use money wisely
3. being sharp and alert
4. must know how to suan wakakaka ....
Hmm.... then, after finished my elementary school, she wants me to go study in the city which arnd 30mins driving *that time lor .. now 1 hour plus i think* My result was considered as quite good liao leh ... so shouldnt be that difficult to enter :P
She was so proud that I can actually go there considering that I'm so lazy... but her bargaining skill was put on test for the entrance fee .... no worries her bargaining skill is still the best! hehe ... like me also ... maybe but i'm not so good at bargaining leh ... *not yet maybe?*
Hmm .... everyday she'll prepare my uniform (got 3 types bah plus PE uniform total 4) and I need to wake up very early in the morning because I took those shuttle van *not really like sg shuttle bus leh ... this is a small van, bo AC hor...*
I remember that time I got around 5k rupiah for my daily allowance. I only use it to buy comics, bakwan, and sometime drink ... the left over I returned to her *wa si kuai kia ok...* but most of the time I kena rob by my sister! She bullied me huhu....
I spend most of my days doing the same routines, i think. Stay helping mum after school. By that time, I like to go kia kia liao .... hehe .... most of the time every weekend we'll go to the malls. ^_^v
Once my bro joining me to go to the same school, we bought a car and hire a driver to drive us to school.. Its a red coloured Panther *msi animal hor... its a brand* Its even more diff to handle since my bro cin lousy, cin luan! ai co simik pun mai ka ki co ... wa lang cin bo hwat liao liao liao...
At the end of his 1st year in Junior High *I was on my Last year mwahaha* he FAILS! stupid, isnt it? ya ya ....wa cai liao... On the day before my final year national exam, I follow my mum & her family to go to TP! till late at night... bo study tan si wa bo fail hor...
I think I'll gather my memory first ... and continue this later on, shall I?
lets see..... where are we now .... when I was in the elementary school, eh?
As I said, she used to drove us to school every morning and we go back to our store after school by becak (trishaw). Yeah I know it was three of us! Sometime we just stay in the store till dawn .. but my siblings, they, dont like it. But I did enjoy it there coz I knew I'm with mum :) hehe...
I like to help her at the store doing the retail .. while my dad doing the bulk which he's not good at (stupid dad I have). I think thats where I got my sharpness in seeing things and suan-ing things. I'm good at number becoz of this too, maybe! hehe ....
I realized that my mum directly or indirectly has influenced me on a few things:
1. be persistent on what i'm doing
2. know how to use money wisely
3. being sharp and alert
4. must know how to suan wakakaka ....
Hmm.... then, after finished my elementary school, she wants me to go study in the city which arnd 30mins driving *that time lor .. now 1 hour plus i think* My result was considered as quite good liao leh ... so shouldnt be that difficult to enter :P
She was so proud that I can actually go there considering that I'm so lazy... but her bargaining skill was put on test for the entrance fee .... no worries her bargaining skill is still the best! hehe ... like me also ... maybe but i'm not so good at bargaining leh ... *not yet maybe?*
Hmm .... everyday she'll prepare my uniform (got 3 types bah plus PE uniform total 4) and I need to wake up very early in the morning because I took those shuttle van *not really like sg shuttle bus leh ... this is a small van, bo AC hor...*
I remember that time I got around 5k rupiah for my daily allowance. I only use it to buy comics, bakwan, and sometime drink ... the left over I returned to her *wa si kuai kia ok...* but most of the time I kena rob by my sister! She bullied me huhu....
I spend most of my days doing the same routines, i think. Stay helping mum after school. By that time, I like to go kia kia liao .... hehe .... most of the time every weekend we'll go to the malls. ^_^v
Once my bro joining me to go to the same school, we bought a car and hire a driver to drive us to school.. Its a red coloured Panther *msi animal hor... its a brand* Its even more diff to handle since my bro cin lousy, cin luan! ai co simik pun mai ka ki co ... wa lang cin bo hwat liao liao liao...
At the end of his 1st year in Junior High *I was on my Last year mwahaha* he FAILS! stupid, isnt it? ya ya ....wa cai liao... On the day before my final year national exam, I follow my mum & her family to go to TP! till late at night... bo study tan si wa bo fail hor...
I think I'll gather my memory first ... and continue this later on, shall I?
Request lai liao ... u lang request wa write about wa e mum ...
Actually, if I want to say it in my p.o.v then pretty much its all about my life since she always with me all the time.
My name was picked by mum for both my english and chinese name, fyi.
When I was a baby ... we were still staying in our rented house which ppl say its haunted. My room was the one near our backyard which near the haunted tree. But they all say that I'm very quiet unlike my sis which always make noise. So they say I'm a kuai kia. That time my mum still working as a tailor and never did I cry to disturb her ...
When my little bro was born, i was still around 1.5 years old. By that time, everyone said that I'm her favourite son. When my bro still in the tube, my grandma brouoght me to her room and was telling her that she brought her fave son. She was so happy after she saw me that day.
Afterward, we moved to another house and I still remember that it has a huge yard where I used to play ... and everytime my mum came back frm work I always went out to the main gate and kept on calling her "Mommy Ulan" coz I cant pronounce her name correctly.. By this time she left her tailoring job and helping my dad with his business.
One day ... in a bright afternoon ... she came home during after lunch time by motorbike ... I was so happy and as usual I ran to the main gate but I was so unfortunate that I hit the gate. Then she quickly brings me to the nearest hospital which was opposite only. And that's how I got this mark on my forehead.
At that age, I already understood that my dad dont like me as much as my sis and lil bro. That's why I was so dependant to my mum. Follow her where ever she go and tell her everything that I did everyday. If u ever see my pic when i was a kid then, almost all, I always besides my mum.
Then we moved to our own house which was paid using installment. I still remember the first day arrived in our new house ... I was standing near the window facing outside. I have to share the same room with my sis and lil bro as we're short of room.
I like to play with those action figure ... start from Saint Seiya, Dragon Ball, TMNT, etc ... and she's the one who always bought me all those toys. She pamper me with her love i would say. Oh and she always bring us to our grandma's house so that we're closer with our relatives.
She always prepare and make sure that we had our breakfast before going to school. And she drove us to school when we were still in elementary school since it is still in the same area. During the elementary school that time, when ever we had test then we had to be literally tested at home ... but still I didn't excel in my study ...
We were always *yeah or most of the time* we will go to Bali during our long holiday which was twice a year. And then there's this story that when i was a few years old they brought me to my grandma's bro's warung .. and i took somebody's sprite! haha I'm such a notti boy. Worst was ... I got bitten by their dog! pregnant dog somemore! sibeh suay!
I'll continue on part 2 later on ... hehe so stay tuned!
Actually, if I want to say it in my p.o.v then pretty much its all about my life since she always with me all the time.
My name was picked by mum for both my english and chinese name, fyi.
When I was a baby ... we were still staying in our rented house which ppl say its haunted. My room was the one near our backyard which near the haunted tree. But they all say that I'm very quiet unlike my sis which always make noise. So they say I'm a kuai kia. That time my mum still working as a tailor and never did I cry to disturb her ...
When my little bro was born, i was still around 1.5 years old. By that time, everyone said that I'm her favourite son. When my bro still in the tube, my grandma brouoght me to her room and was telling her that she brought her fave son. She was so happy after she saw me that day.
Afterward, we moved to another house and I still remember that it has a huge yard where I used to play ... and everytime my mum came back frm work I always went out to the main gate and kept on calling her "Mommy Ulan" coz I cant pronounce her name correctly.. By this time she left her tailoring job and helping my dad with his business.
One day ... in a bright afternoon ... she came home during after lunch time by motorbike ... I was so happy and as usual I ran to the main gate but I was so unfortunate that I hit the gate. Then she quickly brings me to the nearest hospital which was opposite only. And that's how I got this mark on my forehead.
At that age, I already understood that my dad dont like me as much as my sis and lil bro. That's why I was so dependant to my mum. Follow her where ever she go and tell her everything that I did everyday. If u ever see my pic when i was a kid then, almost all, I always besides my mum.
Then we moved to our own house which was paid using installment. I still remember the first day arrived in our new house ... I was standing near the window facing outside. I have to share the same room with my sis and lil bro as we're short of room.
I like to play with those action figure ... start from Saint Seiya, Dragon Ball, TMNT, etc ... and she's the one who always bought me all those toys. She pamper me with her love i would say. Oh and she always bring us to our grandma's house so that we're closer with our relatives.
She always prepare and make sure that we had our breakfast before going to school. And she drove us to school when we were still in elementary school since it is still in the same area. During the elementary school that time, when ever we had test then we had to be literally tested at home ... but still I didn't excel in my study ...
We were always *yeah or most of the time* we will go to Bali during our long holiday which was twice a year. And then there's this story that when i was a few years old they brought me to my grandma's bro's warung .. and i took somebody's sprite! haha I'm such a notti boy. Worst was ... I got bitten by their dog! pregnant dog somemore! sibeh suay!
I'll continue on part 2 later on ... hehe so stay tuned!
哇！真开心得很。。呵呵！刚学会了一个photoshop technique :)
这个techniques又好看又简单
这个techniques又好看又简单
我的照片。。
下面的这张。。是我们在曼谷的时候拍的。我妈很美hor ..所以才有我这很帅的儿子！哈哈！
这下来呢。。是我妈全家的。我叫这张，郑家的女生。除了我表弟，其他的是我阿姨和我外婆。
那。。这张呢。。是2007年2月18号拍的。
好。。。让我学以下怎么改旧的照片变成新的。。
I havent wrote down anything about my last trip to Surabaya leh ... now that I have time, I'll be generous enough to share with u guys! wakaka ...so hiao, eh?
Me & Koko @ Mum's Grave
On the New Year Eve .... my cousins wanted to go swimming (again!?) .... haha but ok lar we all accede to their wish ... didnt take any pic tho ...
Basically, that's it for that day ... we spend the 1st day with laugh and love ... huhu.. tomorrow will go back to SG for co kang hiks hiks 
Anyway, it was a very short trip but yeah it's actually only for my mum's 49th day. The chinese *or should i say taoism/kong hu cu* believe that the spirit will actually depart to go to the other world on the 49th day after he/she passed away. I read somewhere that old folks even pour some flour on the entrance so as to see the footprint of the spirit when they are leaving ... quite interesting ..
So I left Singapore on the 28th by Garuda Indonesia. It was my first time sit at the emergency exit row ... wekeke .. okay leh but table so small .. and this is what I saw.. nice isnt it?!
Then I went out for a swimming session with my sis and cousins at Singgasana Hotel until I think all my bones are having a breakdown! sibeh tired!
My mum's 49th day falls on 31st Dec, which means we're supposed to go to the graveyard on 31st early morning before sunrise. As such, my auntie had scheduled a gift exchange party to be held 1 day earlier. All my family member was there (from mum's side) starts from my grannie, aunties, and cousins ... and this is how i look on that night!
Me & my little cousin ... (notice the hat?)
Me & Koko @ Mum's Grave
and my gift for my sis..
On the New Year Eve .... my cousins wanted to go swimming (again!?) .... haha but ok lar we all accede to their wish ... didnt take any pic tho ...
And the New Year I celebrate with ... dreaming! wekeke ... sibeh tired hor ... then 11.45 local time i pingsan liao .. hoho!
On the 1st day of 2008, We went to TP ... woohoo ... haha with all my mum's big family. Luckily (yeah! luckily..) I didnt buy anything except a hat. I've been looking for a nice one and not just the normal hat. Look .... nice isnt it?
And we were heading towards DOME cafe ... but cabut at the end coz grannie doesnt like the menu. Linkafe is where we had our lunch that day ... It has a new decor all together with the ongoing A&A in TP to make it looks better. Our happy face welcoming 2008!!
Basically, that's it for that day ... we spend the 1st day with laugh and love ... huhu.. tomorrow will go back to SG for co kang hiks hiks
My Sby - Sg flight was very early in the morning which was intentionally taken bcoz I'm having a shortfall on leave! sibeh bo ho lar leave ... wait later kena cut here and there.. huhu...
Anyway, super qiao that I got the same seat as my prev flight hor... and this time its a morning view ... like this
and I wore my newly bought hat hoho ... so nice lor... see my sillhouette as well :)
Wait till my next trip on February :)
今天是我妈妈的生日。。如果可以，我只要告诉她，生日快乐！！
去年她是跟我一起过生日的，可惜今天我不可以陪她过生日 :'(
Here's a few pic of our last year vacation to Shanghai and Bangkok
Me & Mum @ Maglev Train
Me hugged by Mum at Siam Paragon
妈，总算我只会跟你说永远会记得你。不管发生了什么事，我是你儿子。
去年她是跟我一起过生日的，可惜今天我不可以陪她过生日 :'(
Here's a few pic of our last year vacation to Shanghai and Bangkok
Me & Mum @ Maglev Train
Me hugged by Mum at Siam Paragon
妈，总算我只会跟你说永远会记得你。不管发生了什么事，我是你儿子。
不懂为什么最近我心乱得很。。好像是因为最近发生了很多事情吧。
Anyway, My Mum passed away on the 13 November 2007, 17.48pm (Western Indonesia Time). It was the biggest shock that I had in my life ever! I know maybe people will say that I'm so mellow but whatever! Only I know how close my relationship with my mum is!
My mum is, well, one of my idol. I really am at lost when my sister gimme the news ... it was so sudden and I wasnt expecting all this thing to happen so fast ... Oh well, I do hope and pray that this will be the best for her and for us. May she rest in peace :)
If only I can turn back time, I'd do everything to make her happy. I really mean it! Too bad I'm just daydreaming....
Anyway, May she rest in peace :)
Anyway, My Mum passed away on the 13 November 2007, 17.48pm (Western Indonesia Time). It was the biggest shock that I had in my life ever! I know maybe people will say that I'm so mellow but whatever! Only I know how close my relationship with my mum is!
My mum is, well, one of my idol. I really am at lost when my sister gimme the news ... it was so sudden and I wasnt expecting all this thing to happen so fast ... Oh well, I do hope and pray that this will be the best for her and for us. May she rest in peace :)
If only I can turn back time, I'd do everything to make her happy. I really mean it! Too bad I'm just daydreaming....
Anyway, May she rest in peace :)
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